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Frequently Asked Questions with Answers

I get asked some questions often enough that I've written up answers and published them here. I hope you find them useful. If your question is not answered here, please contact me.

Questions

  1. What is integral coaching?
  2. What support does a coach provide?
  3. What do you mean by "way of being?"

Answers

Question 1: What is integral coaching?
A: Integral coaching is a powerfully effective way of expanding self-understanding, nurturing development, and integrating the life of clients. This has the impact of enabling the client to be more effective and fulfilled in the aspect of life the coaching is focused on.

For a description and illustration of how coaching works, please read "An Interview with Steve March" posted elsewhere on this site.

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Question 2: What support does a coach provide?
A: The coach and the client form a partnership that supports the client. The coach facilitates the assessment, designs the coaching program, and supports the client through regular coaching conversations either face-to-face or by telephone. During the contract period, the coach tailors the client's coaching program as necessary to better help the client fulfill the purpose of the program. To effectively do all of this requires the coach to be grounded, centered, and fully engaged with the client. In this state, the coach brings forth appropriate knowledge and wisdom to compassionately respond to what is happening for the client.

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Question 3: What do you mean by "way of being?"
A: Quoting from "An Interview with Steve March" posted elsewhere on this site,

We all have a way of being and acting in the world. We don't act as a result of accepting inputs, thinking, and generating outputs as computers do. As Heidegger pointed out, we are thrown into life as if we are falling through time. Even stopping to think about what we are going to do is acting. At every moment you are acting. It is unavoidable.

"Way of being" is an important concept for understanding coaching. The intent of coaching as I'm defining it here is not to help you think better or faster. Sure that may be helpful sometimes, but that isn't very helpful when you need it most - when you find yourself thrown into a situation with no time to think. This happens all the time. It is where we find ourselves most of the time. In these situations, you're actions dependent entirely on your way of being. The intent of coaching, as I'm defining it, is to build the capability to be effective in these situations through developing your way of being. In this way, you are left capable of self-correcting, self-generating, and excellent performance independent of the coach at the conclusion of the coaching program.

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November 9, 2003
 

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